When two people start feeling butterflies in their stomachs, it’s the beginning of something beautiful—love. It’s a mix of sexual desire and a surge of lovely hormones (I think you’ve heard about oxytocin! 🥰). During this time, the ideas of moving things ahead to the next level begin to seep into your head. Unfortunately, some people find it tricky to go from just friendship and dating to having a full-blown relationship. Something is missing: either confidence or the fear of being rejected.
In this article, I’m going to show you how to progress from dating to relationship, what the next steps look like, and when to move in together!
How Long to Go from Dating to in a Relationship?
You’ve been in a “friendship” or dating a girl for a while, and you’re asking: “When should we transition to the next level?”. When does it go from dating to an official relationship? It’s a common problem. Relationship experts actually suggest taking some time to get to know each other more intimately before making things official. That means it’s perfectly fine if you are stuck in the “casual dating” phase for a while.
There is a relaxed rulebook for when to make your connection official. However, it’s generally a good call to wait a few months, like three to six. Hey, but what is the 10 date rule? It is an unwritten rule: men tend to consider taking things to the next stage with their women after they’ve been on around 10 dates. During this time, you can examine how your possible mate behaves in various situations throughout this period to get to know each other better. Stress, daily routines, social interactions, jealousy, anger management—these aspects of life can easily ruin your contact!
I want to share with you one wise quote: “Love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together; love is about how much you love each other every single day”. So enjoy this candy-bouquet period, don’t try to rush things, and don’t ask questions every time: “When is too soon to move in together?”. Jumping the gun could actually push your beloved away. Use this time to explore all the facets of your partner’s personality and discover her likes, goals, and vision for life. It’s during this stage that many couples realize they might not have a future together. However, if you feel great with her and share common goals and plans, don’t hesitate to take that step toward a more serious relationship!
How Do You Convert Dating to a Relationship?
When should you transition from dating to relationship? Well, whenever you think the moment is appropriate. But how exactly do people move from casual dating to committed relationships? Besides, how does this transition process work? Now I’ll tell you everything in more detail!
Start slowly 🐌
Don’t jump into a deep connection right away. Look, relationships often start with a rush of feelings, emotions, and pleasant sensations. You get closer and share personal information. Yes, it feels like a bright future together is the only path. But then, poof! All that understanding, closeness, and warmth seem to vanish into the air. It’s because we often miss hidden traps. These blind spots can really ruin building a lasting and meaningful partnership. Besides, don’t think about when is a good time to move in together in the first months of your relationship. You don’t need to have rapid wedding plans and fantasize about having kids in order to move in together. The crucial thing is understanding that you and your beloved have similar perspectives on the future.
So, the smartest move is to take your time and get to know the person from a fresh perspective. When your connection shifts from friendship, savor it! Just have patience and let your love develop at a pace that suits you.
Just the two of you 🫂
If you usually hang out with your sweetheart in groups or with mutual companions and find that you’re not getting much alone time, it might be time to change things up. Spending more time alone together can really work wonders for your connection. You see, relationships tend to get deeper and more meaningful when you nurture them in those precious moments away from the crowd. It’s like having something special that’s just yours, no one else’s. Do you know how long do people talk before dating? A lot! That feeling of closeness is, after all, one of the essential components of a happy partnership. It originates from your ability to share such special moments together.
Going on dates 👩🏼❤️👨🏻
As your “friendship” keeps growing, it’ll be time for full-fledged dates. Plan some cute and romantic dates, for example:
- having romantic dinners;
- botanical garden visits;
- watching movies (romantic, comedy, or even horror!);
- strolling through the evening metropolis streets while listening to the musicians;
- comedy shows (stand-up);
- sunset picnics
Going on dates will truly dial up the romantic vibes in your relationship and move you further from friendship into the realm of love.
Find out if this is “your person” 🕵️
Make sure that person is the right fit for you before you commit to a relationship. However, how can you know whether your partner is “that person”? It’s likely that she is “the one” if you can accept her just as she is, be yourself with her without any masks, and feel at ease like you are at home. More signs? You trust each other, genuinely care, and are always there to lend an ear and have a heart-to-heart. These are some good hints that you’ve found someone special and need to move further.
Introduce her to your inner circle 💋
This sign will illuminate the fact that she’s super exceptional to you—a brilliant one! It’s a way to show how much you value her and that you’re more than ready to let her into your world without any doubts. This move can effortlessly nudge you closer to a solid and inclusive relationship.
Determine the status of your relationship 💡
At some point, you’ll want to have “the dialogue.” The time when you discuss the status of your relationship. It’s not as awkward as it sounds, so don’t worry! The key to any lasting connection is communication. “Who are you for each other?” “What are your future goals together?” and “What do you both want from this relationship?” are some questions you should ask your special someone. If your girlfriend appreciates you, she’ll answer everything honestly. Then you can start something serious and incredibly romantic!
Final Thoughts
To sum it up, being in a relationship can be pretty beneficial. It trains your understanding, patience, and partnership. Plus, relationships can sculpt you into a better, more awesome version of yourself! If you want a relationship so badly, remember that it’s a route that needs time and a heap of mutual understanding to truly flourish. So, no need to rush! Believe me, many love stories start with a foundation of friendship, and they tend to go the distance. So, cherish this time, and when the moment feels right, take serious steps toward building a healthy relationship. Now you know how to progress from dating to relationship. Oh, and one last thing: never forget how incredible it is to be best friends with each other! 💖
Victoria Davis is highly sought-after dating coach with a passion for helping individuals find love and build meaningful connections. She graduated from university and soon understood that teaching is not what she wants to devote her life to. Once Victoria realized a strong passion for coaching, she started to help clients develop self-confidence, improve their communication skills, and navigate the complexities of modern dating. The expert feels happy to see how two single souls unite and start healthy relationship. Victoria keeps improving her expertise by attending workshops, seminars, and webinars, where she can exchange valuable insights and practical tips with collegues. Whether you need to enhance a dating profile, master the art of flirting, or overcome dating anxiety – Victoria is always here to help. In her free time, she likes reading, drawing, and playing tennis.
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