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Depending on the people with whom communication occurs, each of us adheres to a certain distance. There is a certain distance between people that determines their relationship. Everyone has his own personal space in which a person admits people close to us and beware of the invasion of those people whom he does not trust or those who have not received a certain status. Let's talk about the zones between people in communication:
This zone is the most basic for every person, it is in this zone that a person admits only relatives and friends, friends, those to whom we experience feelings. The zone from 0 to 15 cm is the most intimate zone with close physical contacts.
This is the daily distance that people adhere to. Basically this is the distance between friends. The personal zone may be violated by shaking hands, hugging (when you have not seen your friend for a long time and are so happy to see him), then there is a moment when you let them into your personal zone, but then again stick to your personal zone, protecting your personal space.
This is the distance between people who do not know each other. For example, they called you at the door, you open it, and a representative of the company came to you, which distributes its products. You stick to the social zone. When a company representative begins to offer you products, he tries to establish contact and enter your personal zone, offering to look at the catalog or hold the goods in hand.
In everyday life, violation of the intimate zone and personal space from the side of strangers causes negative emotions. People regard this as an invasion of a zone without their consent, and this in turn raises a danger and a threat. A good example is people who go to rush hour in the subway or public transport. It is then possible to trace how people get irritated, everyone tries to find an area where, at least, he will protect his personal space.
When communicating with a girl or boy who is newly acquainted, there is a personal zone between them. They communicate, being in a personal zone until one of them enters the intimate zone. When you touch a person who you like, violating personal space, you give him a signal that he lets you into his intimate zone. Only do this in stages, so as not to cause aggression or unpleasant feelings. To violate the intimate zone, you need to evoke positive emotions that they have to violate your personal space.
The distance between people who kiss and hug each other will be different from people who came to congratulate you on your birthday. People who are kissing will cling to each other tightly. People who came to congratulate you, too, will embrace and kiss you, but the lower (pelvic) part of the body will observe a distance of 15 cm.
Your distance with the interlocutor will show your attitude towards him.